Guest Post by Jane Love: “Do You Not Know that You Shouldn’t Help ‘Such People’?”

Hey, want to hear a story?

It’s a really good one. So, I’ll tell it anyway. Come along.

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Helping Hands

It was a dark and stormy night… nah – too cliché. Let me try again.

Phillip wasn’t always this way. If anyone had suggested that he’d ever find himself in such a compromising situation, he would have thought the person to be a bold-faced liar. And yet, here he was doing something he hadn’t done in a while.

His knees dug into the ground, and he laid his chest onto his previously well-made bed.

“Father, please. Talk to me. I’m so confused right now. I don’t know what to do next.”

Then, he began to listen intently – hoping to hear what his Dad had to say. When he was met with silence, Phil couldn’t help but burst into tears. It had been like this for almost three days now. And the pressure on him was becoming overwhelming.

Five Months Ago – The Onset of His Problems

It all started that day Phillip decided to take Rudric under his wing.

Rudric was a morning paper delivery boy he had grown very fond of. Every day, after making his rounds, the young boy always came by to have a chat with Phil. And although he looked rowdy and illiterate, the boy was actually quite sharp. It was a pity he couldn’t afford quality education.

Phil hated to see such talents go to waste. So, he offered to pay the youngster’s tuition. The overjoyed expression on Rudric’s face at his proposal and his impressive performance as the months passed was all the thanks he needed as appreciation. What a fine young chap!

Phillip’s mother, Josephine, was happy to see her son making a difference in someone else’s life. She always commended him for choosing to lend a helping hand when the need arose. It was because of this that he failed to understand how her demeanor towards him changed after three months.

Phillip could remember clearly when she phoned him, saying she had something important to discuss.

“Phil”, she began. “I am so disappointed in you. Why didn’t you tell me?”

Confused, he asked that she clarify her statement.

“Why didn’t you tell me that boy you helped was Nazi?”

Phil was stunned. For two reasons:

  1. She had never called Rudric anything else but his name.
  2. The boy was German. But he didn’t see any reason why that detail was important.

“I didn’t? All right, I’m sorry for not telling you, Mom. Rudric is actually German. I’m not sure about the Nazi bit though. I thought Nazism is already out of the system.”

“Potato, Potahto. Doesn’t matter – it’s the same! How could you do such a thing?! Do you not know that you shouldn’t help ‘such people’?”

“What do you mean?”

“They are animals! Have you forgotten the heinous crimes they committed? Have you-”

“Mom, those things were in the past,” I cut in. “I assure you – things are much different these days.”

“Now you listen to me, young man. I want you to take your hands off anything to do with that boy. Have I made myself clear?”

“But Mother…”

She didn’t even let him finish his statement before she added, “Exactly. I am YOUR mother! And I demand that you do not continue to help such people! Or you can cease to refer to me as the one who labored and carried you for nine good months – the very same one who brought you into this world – in case you have forgotten.”

With that, the line went dead.

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Kindness and Diversity

Phillip’s mother represents a category of people we have now in our world today. A group of people who invest a lot of valuable time into discriminating and fighting over differences.

Those are the kind of people who have a “criteria” for helping others… As if there ever needs to be a special reason why we should be kind to others. Whenever I meet such individuals, I often ask how they’d react/feel if someone refused to lend a helping hand – just because they are “different”.

Many of them couldn’t give me a definite answer other than – I’d feel terrible.

You see, a lot of people neglect the effect their actions have on others. They just act and do not think about it. You do not need a special reason to be kind to others. Whatever opportunity you get to be of help to your neighbor, grab it… even if all the help you can honestly give is a SMILE. That little guy does wonders.

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And now, I would love to share a piece on kindness by one of my favorite poets.

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Send a Drop of Kindness

By Julie Hebert

Send a drop of kindness,

And see a happy face.

A drop of kindness goes real far,

It may even reach outer space.


Send a drop of love,

And feel a loving embrace.

It feels so good to feel like,

You are in the right place.


Send a drop of hope,

But be that shining star.

Hope is wonderful to have,

But sometimes you can’t sit away so far.


Send a drop of faith,

With a single prayer.

And God will show the way,

As faith is always there.


That’s about all I have for now. Though I never really got to finish my story… maybe next time.

Adios, amigos.

About the Blogger


Jane Love, is one of those rare people who you meet in life that is easy to connect with. She is kind, smart, and incredibly giving. Jane has a unique perspective of the world and it is definitely one worth delving into. According to a personality test, based on her favorite color, she is a great communicator and loves to talk. She often likes to think of herself as a scientist, constantly analyzing, looking at both sides before making a decision; methodical and decisive. Jane can also be an entertainer, comic or clown if it means bringing a smile to the faces of family and friends. Along with her siblings Kingsley and Soul Ja, Jane runs a blog that aims to inspire, pick up, and create a better world.

Jane is one of the sweetest and kindest individuals I know. You can visit her blog by clicking here

Thanks for reading!


47 thoughts on “Guest Post by Jane Love: “Do You Not Know that You Shouldn’t Help ‘Such People’?”

  1. This post took me to an entirely different world. Your writing style is so diverse and so engaging. A very few bloggers have that skill. I loved the guest post.
    Also, the pic is super cute. Also also also every word of the intro is true. You are a gem Janie ❤❤ Ipuna would agree to me on that !

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      1. I wasn’t even sure where I was going with it myself. 😂😂 I kept having to recheck the topic as a way of trying to understand how at all that angle fit with it. Surprised myself!😂😂

        P.S. It’s you guys who are the gems

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  2. Ipuna this is great! Thank you for sharing it with us 🙂 We all need to help each other, no matter what. God said we are His temple, why would we not help out God’s temple? Jesus said we are ALL His brethren, why would we not help out our brethren? Jane seems wonderful. I can’t wait to check out her blog 🙂

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    1. Yes. That’s some deep food for all our souls. Love how you just laid it out as simply as it is! Jesus showed a perfect example because he healed both the Jews and Gentiles. He didn’t care but reached out to everyone. Even those who were nailing him to the cross.

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  3. This is an interesting writing piece and it did cover almost everything. Helping hand and kindness is what humans need. Well written, Jane. Ipuna, you have described Jane so well. A total comic and a sweet soul.

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    1. Thank you, Sensei. I guess I was just sharing what I learned at thine feet, soon to be wisest one of the year (yes. That’s the one I want you to win 😀 😀 )
      You’ve all taught me so much in diverse ways and so it is I who must thank you.

      Y’all bring out the best in me ❤ ❤ (including the best whacky jokes I can come up with 😂😂)

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  4. Great story with great lesson. It is really amazing how we can say with small story a lot of good things. Be kind if you want the world to be kind to you 🙂

    Thank you

    And yes, great people are always simple

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  5. Awesome post by Jainey! It’s sad a lot of people do think this way; they will help only if conditions are met and didn’t think of the effect of their actions. On the bright side, a lot of people don’t think that way. 😀

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    1. Just for this, I forgive you for getting me so worried. I really should come up with another way to communicate with ya in case of an emergency (Telepathy, perhaps? 😂😂). Don’t you ever go disappearing on me again (yep. thought of the effect I want that to have. One of showing you how much I love you ❤ and perhaps a lil bit of my horrible attempt to pretend I'm older than you and not just the space time continuum twin who should have come first 😂😂😂😂😂)

      Thank you!!

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  6. Wow. I couldn’t even recognize my article at first. You’ve made it look so much cooler. Well, then again, that’s a gift you have Sunshine. You make everything better (especially when you smile like you probably are right now 😀 )
    It was a pleasure writing this. Let’s do it more often 😛
    Thank you!!

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